Our New Kissing Video

From French Kissing to boys’ questions about erections when kissing, this video is a fun and helpful guide to getting to first base. It’s also a good conversation starter for couples–where the kissing isn’t quite what you’d like it to be yet.

Our New Clitoris Video

See the true structure of the clitoris, how much the clitoris changes in size when a woman is aroused, and how the glans of some clitorises are hidden while others are prominent. This video contains helpful lovemaking information about the clitoris.

One of the best ways to get a condom that’s right for you and your partner is to try sampler packs. Find a brand that works well for both of you, and stock up. Here’s the most extensive list of links for condom sampler packs on the planet: (more…)

Alex Minsky wanted to be a marine, not a male underwear model. A roadside bomb in Afghanistan changed that–along with 47 days in a coma and having to relearn to walk and talk. For the rest of the story, click here.

From our sex survey:

“Masturbating. Cos there’s no partner in crime to laugh about it with later.”

“Masturbating – there’s a level of cover when you’re with someone else.”

“Masturbating. It’s such a personal experience… Sex is talked about more, it’s more accepted socially.”

“If either of my parents walked in on either of these activities, it would be pretty mortifying.”


From one of our male survey takers:

“The least amount of time I give a woman oral sex is 30 to 45 minutes. The key is to make her as comfortable as possible and be able to sense her reaction to what you are doing…  Most women don’t start to relax and go into a stage of comfort until about 10 to 15 min. into it. It also depends on the amount of build-up and the relationship you have.”


Relationships require more time and effort than we often give them.


We are rebuilding the site’s infrastructure from the ground up. This is a good thing, except that posts will be few and far between until the end of April.

When this site began last Summer, it was an experiment in how to do sex education in a new way. Starting in May, the experiment is over and the site begins for real.

MAY 23 UPDATE: Setting up the new video channel and creating the first three videos took way more time than planned–a total of 90 hours has gone into each of the 3 videos. There was a steep learning curve. The site is now back to full speed, but we’ll only be doing two new videos a month instead of one a week!

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